listen up all you road drivers

Today i took an hour to reach my home from my office
the reason is what?
sure it's because of traffic jam
friday ma, many people going back to home town...
(the route i take is linked to the highway)
when i got nothing to do in the jam i realized something...
actually there are only 2 places got the worst jam
and the road structure are same as bellow:


                         ## __TF__                    
                      l        l        l
                      l  X   l        l
                    / l        l        l
                  /   l        l        l
                /     l        l        l
              /       l        l        l
             l        l        l        l
             l        l        l        l
             l        l        l        l
             l        l        l        l
             l        l        l        l
 _____  l        l        l        l
   +                 l        l        l
               1st   2nd   3rd

this look like a simple road right
1st lane is for vehicle that turning from lane
majority of the drivers were heading to ##, i m also one of them
meaning to say we were using 2nd lane
but the fact is that most of us, inpatient road users
since the movement in the 2nd that we are supposed to be in is so slow
so they scrambling and cutting  to 1st and 3rd lane and finally all cars were stuck in spot X
i was a bit annoyed
because the way they drive were too fierce
they wouldn't even give up a tiny, narrow little place

and i personally and strongly think that
if all of us be patient and using the right lane patiently
the flow would be dramatically faster than what it was
some more in absence of the risk of getting our cars scratched

haiz....